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Bend, Don't Break

11/12/2015

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    Have you ever gotten to that point where you just can't take it anymore?  When everything in life seems to go against you and nothing comes your way?
    We've all been there.  Some more than others, but I'm here to tell you, even when life throws you more challenges than you think you can take, it's okay.  In fact, they're usually what make you stronger in the end.
    Take for instance a story I once heard about an experiment.  
    A group of scientists wanted to create a biodome filled with everything it needed to be self-sustaining.  The enclosure would be a utopia of sorts, holding all it could possibly use to achieve perfection.  The perfect soil, plants, trees, temperature...it was balanced evenly...so nothing could go wrong.  
     You know the one thing they forgot to add, however?  Resistance.  In their efforts to create perfection, they failed to remember you need resistance, to make things stronger.  In this case, it was the wind.  
     You see, in nature, plants and trees are made to bend.  It's an important factor so when the wind pushes against them, they move and force that resistance against their roots.  What results from this?  Stronger roots.  
     What the scientists realized, was that without the strength of the roots, the plants and trees fell over, broke or died out altogether.  
    I've learned over the years, even when you wish everything could be perfect or without difficulties, it doesn't necessarily mean that's what's best for you.  Sometimes the obstacles that get in your way, the resistance, are what make you better in the end.  
    Those are the times you look back on and realize just how important they were, even though you couldn't see it while they happened.  
    So when the wind pushes you, even on the rainiest of days, remember to allow yourself to bend and not break.  Trust that God is quite possibly using it, to make you stronger than you've ever been before.
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Charlie link
11/16/2015 06:47:25 am

Sometimes the wind gets pretty strong and it would be nice if it would just let up for a while. It can really start to feel like you have no "bend" left.

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Sam
11/16/2015 09:23:51 pm

A good scripture to go along with this is " I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." as well as the saying "This too shall pass".

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Perumahan Di Tangerang link
11/17/2015 02:47:19 pm

your post is very good, thank you

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7/13/2016 10:04:03 pm

Life definitely doesn't always go the way we want it to. I think that a better term to use for your article is 'resilience' instead of 'resistance' though. That would complement your thought on bending and not breaking. I agree that we do have to have strong roots as well. This may symbolize the things we value, our principles, and etc. - these are the things we should know not to let go.

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