Keep Your Fork

    Someone once told me that their motto in life was to always remember to "Keep their fork."  This confused me a little so I asked what they meant by it.  The explanation was simple, yet memorable.  They told me that it's always important to do what you need to do...eat your dinner, make sure you get your nutrition.  It's important to do your job well, be responsible and reliable.  As key as these things in life are for health and success, you also need to remember to keep your fork when your meal is done.  Don't put it on your plate and let it go.  Sometimes the best things in life come after your meal - it's the dessert that you may not expect that can be the best part of all.  Remember to keep your fork to be able to enjoy the sweet things in life.  As crucial as it is to fulfill your responsibilities, it's just as important to spend time with family and friends, relax and enjoy where you are and deepen your faith and foundation from where you came.  Save room for the "good stuff." 
    I was reminded of this last night after dinner when the kids began to clear their plates.  My husband said, "Wait guys!  We have cake for dessert tonight so keep your forks."  Their eyes lit up and they were excited by the surprise.  After a full meal of, "Kids, eat your broccoli...finish your corn...Yes, you have to drink ALL of your milk..." it was nice to get to watch them enjoy their special treat as well. 
    As much as everyone seems to struggle these days and worry about things, it's also good to hold on in hopes that it will get better.  No matter who you are, or what troubles you may happen to have, it's helpful to remember to "Keep your fork" and always hope for good things to come...and maybe a little slice of chocolate cake too.